Nonfiction 2004 / 22o pages
Yes, if you are wondering if this book is about what you think it is about, it is! She Comes First is about sexually satisfying a woman first. I can't believe someone actually wrote this book, so I had to check it out.
(Not to apologize, but I can imagine some blog readers wondering, “why is she blogging about books on sex?” I realize it may seem odd from your perspective, but even when you are almost 70 (or maybe especially when you are almost 70!) and new relationships, new love, new sexual experiences present themselves, interest in sex re-emerges.)
This book is fascinating for women as well as men. Did you know there are 18 parts to a clitoris, some visible and some not? I didn't ... and I learned much more about my own sexual body reading She Comes First.
While jam-packed with useful information and humor, I think it reads like a YouTube video on how to rebuild your car's engine. It is very descriptive, with lots of "how to" ... prescriptive, detailed, informative. I would not want to be a man reading this ... it is TOO directive in my opinion. However, a thoughtful perusal to pick up an idea or two might serve us all?!
My disappointment is that Kerner does not represent older women and our unique challenges.
Overall, I do recommend it for anyone who enjoys or would like to enjoy more satisfaction in giving or receiving cunnilingus. (Wow, did I actually write that line?)